Recently, there was the Polyamory Day of Visibility and I was very aware of it, because one of my favorite facebook groups is MN Polyamory and they were hosting Polycon2023 that day. I was bummed to miss it actually, and I was also invited to a Day of Visibility Rally in Oakland...I was up at the cabin next door to my parents' place, taking my kids tubing towed behind a jet ski, an important weekend getaway for my family and my parents. But next year I would like to attend Polycon. Despite not attending, just the presence of these two simultaneous events prompted me to reflect upon some things. I thought I was Ambiamorous, but I think I am naturally Polyamorous, and I am consenting to be in a closed dynamic for my spouse and I that is a V with my California partner who is open. I feel that honors my relationship with my partner in California more. I think it best describes how I experience magnetism towards folks too, while consciously and ethically c...
